Recipe Review: Peanut Butter Banana Oatmeal Squares

I found this recipe on (surprise!) Pinterest and gave it a try this morning. My friend Sarah came over for breakfast. We talked about Jesus and babies, so it was pretty much perfect. 

These oatmeal squares were really delicious & healthy too! I tweaked the recipe, per yoush. It's against my religion to follow a recipe to a T. I used two bananas instead of one, added more cinnamon than it called for, and substituted applesauce for the brown sugar. I also added about 1.5 tablespoons of sugar just to make sure it was sweet enough. 

Try them out! Here's the recipe from Gingerbread Bagels.

Monday Musings: The Dreaded "A-Word"

 This weekend I went to Bald Head Island with my family. It was fuunnn!

 We drove golf carts around.

My brother went fishing.

We rode on a ferry. I left the beach by myself to make it back to Durham. I had to get my bag, pay for parking, etc. all by myself for the first time ever.

We found pretty things in pretty boutiques.

We went to the beach.

My skin didn't like it.

My goofy fiance got his cap and gown.

We went to a GoUrban meeting and got t-shirts. They're funny 'cause they're true. Durham isn't for everyone, but its awesome.

This weekend made me feel old. It might've had something to do with the fact that I drove to the beach and back by myself. Or it could've been because Miles & I were the only couple among single people at our GoUrban meeting. Or I could've felt old because my fiance is about to graduate and get a real job, Lord willing. Or it could've been because two of the cutest girls ever asked me if I was a teenager on Sunday. I think the last one got me.

3 year old Kate: Are you a teenager?

Me: Ehh, no. Not really.

K: Are you a mommy?

Me: No, but I will be one day.

K: Well then what are you?!

Me: I guess I'm an adult.

*Gulp*

I Ain't Wearin' No Head Cuverins.

A few weeks ago, I got a text message that read something like "Why don't you obey the Bible and wear a head covering?!" from Miles.

Whaaaaat?!

I was super confused. What in the world was he talking about? I knew he was joking, but I really didn't even know where he was getting this whole head covering idea from. After talking to him some more, he said it was in 1 Corinthians 11. I checked it out, gave it a good twice-over. Still confused.

For the past two weeks or so, I've been going through the book of 1 Corinthians. Lo and behold, today was the day I came across the previously neglected head covering passage. I pulled out my handy dandy ESV Study Bible and got to work. Once I read the commentary, it all made sense! Allow me to share...

     Now I commend you because you remember me in everything and maintain the traditions even as I delivered them to you. But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God. Every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head, but every wife who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, since it is the same as if her head were shaven. For if a wife will not cover her head, then she should cut her hair short. But since it is disgraceful for a wife to cut off her hair or shave her head, let her cover her head. For a man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God, but woman is the glory of man. For man was not made from woman, but woman from man. Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man. That is why a wife ought to have a symbol of authority on her head, because of the angels. Nevertheless, in the Lord woman is not independent of man nor man of woman; for as woman was made from man, so man is now born of woman. And all things are from God. Judge for yourselves: is it proper for a wife to pray to God with her head uncovered? Does not nature itself teach you that if a man wears long hair it is a disgrace for him, but if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For her hair is given to her for a covering. If anyone is inclined to be contentious, we have no such practice, nor do the churches of God. (1 Corinthians 11:2-16 ESV)

Here's some helpful information/context about the passage:

• In first century Roman society, a woman's head covering was a sign of marriage. Not wearing a head covering was a sign of infidelity and promiscuity. Imagine if your pastor's wife got up one Sunday morning, sans wedding ring, with a short, distasteful skirt and low-cut shirt on stage to pray. Just guessing, but that probably wouldn't go over too well. In the same way, Paul is saying women should cover their heads (their "glory," given by God) out of respect for their husbands and ultimately God.
• Great for Romans in the 1st century, but what about us today? Take it away, ESV study notes: "In cultures where women's head coverings are not a sign of being married, wives do not need to cover their heads in worship, but they could obey this command by wearing some other physical symbol of being married (such as a wedding ring)." 
• Why does this head covering deal only apply to women? Why are men specifically commanded not to cover their heads? (Let's be real, it's easy to cop an attitude with Paul on this one. Just wait and listen.) Roman men would occasionally take part of their toga and pull it over their head when worshipping pagan gods in Roman temples. Paul tells the men of Corinth not to cover their heads because that was a pagan act of worship.
• Paul ends the passage by saying "all things are from God," meaning men and women, harkening back to Genesis 1:27: "God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them." 

I was super tempted to ignore this passage, say it didn't apply to me, and write it off. In my mind I was thinking "I ain't wearin' no head cuverin'." I'm sure many have glanced over these verses and said Paul was just a chauvinist woman-hater. But, look! So many good things that are applicable today in 2012 just came from that passage! So before you go hating on men or Paul or cutting out passages from your Bible a la Thomas Jefferson, dig into the passage and see what God has to teach you. The Bible is like a lion - don't tame it in a cage, unleash it!

Read This, Watch That: Joy Eggerich

I recently stumbled upon a blogger/vlogger named Joy Eggerich. She's awesome, pretty much super awkward, and really wise. Her parents have a marriage ministry and the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. She is a researcher that seeks to help out young people (18-35 year olds) with relationships and preparing for marriage.

She has tons of videos, all of which are hilarious in some way, so check out her YouTube channel.

She blogs over here at Love and Respect Now.

She's super practical, yet offers some solid Christian theology. Aaaaand she's obsessed with unicorns. Check her out!

My "10 Foot Tall" Man

This past summer I got lots of relationship advice. Some was wonderful, some was... interesting, as personal opinions and varied experiences often make for.  

Today, friends, count yourselves lucky, because I'm sharing with you one of said gems in the sometimes awesome and always awkward realm of relationships...

"Your husband should be 10 feet tall."

Obviously, this isn't meant to be literal. Although, let's be real, marrying a 10 foot tall man would be welcome chlorine to my vertically challenged gene pool.  

When I first heard this proverb, I was confused, then, with some explanation, enlightened. Ladies, in your mind, your man should be so incredibly wonderful that he seems 10 feet tall. A man that is "10 feet tall" is one who is easy to look up to (punny!) and easy to follow. He's a protector. He garners respect. His presence is never overlooked. There's so much of him that you could brag about his good qualities for hours on end. In essence, you're marrying up big time (hence the hyperbolized analogy).

  

Bottom line: ladies, make sure your man is super tall. I know mine is :)